Saturday, November 05, 2005
Love. The only 4 letter word that's probably more complicated than this is Life.
It's amazing how much people are willing to do in the name of love. Stories of mothers gaining god-like strengths in order to save their child trapped under a fallen tree have been told. Some ppl devote their whole life into painting out of passion and love for art. And then there is the common teenager's love.
It's the 5th entry of my blog and i'm already running the risk of ruining one perfectly fine friendship. Isn't that exciting. I read what you wrote, but im chose and was told not to comment about it. This entry shall just be a personal reflection for me and the other parties. If i said anything wrong in my previous entry, i apologise. Then again, what is sorry but a way of appleasing others? but i dun see a point in hiding myself by deleting that post. I have the right to write about wad i want to write and even more so when i feel i'm right.
Ok, maybe i shall comment on bits and pieces of your entry. So i lied. The whole world is lying. It's true that i, kevin teo aka cute one is an outsider. I know nuts about what really goes on between 2 parties of a relationship. Isn't there some chi proverb that says outsiders see the whole picture more clearly than the parties itself? i dunno, i suck in chinanese. England too.
A relationship is about giving and taking. The spirit of compromisation must be strong within each self. For me, i guess this is the most important part of a relationship other than maintaining good communication. If one is unable to compromise with another's flaws, the relationship would experience bumps along the way and eventually break down.
Equal time with each other, unequal amount of sacrifice. In a relationship, some people sacrifice more than their spouses. Afterall, life is unfair. Things like this are bound to happen, so ppl ain't really complaining about it. But the amount of sacrifice a person is willing to take is sometimes remarkable. Even after being pushed down and kicked repeatedly, one could still stand up and fight on. For the love of their country? The love of their friends? Their family? Or is it for the love of one very special girl. Out of love for a person, one is willing to forgive all the wrongdoings just for the person to stay beside him once again. It may sound stupid to outsiders, it certainly sound stupid to me when i heard it. But if i put myself in that person's shoes, i guess i would do the same.
Love is certainly a very powerful word. It allows the receiver to forgive a thousand sins, yet often, people abuses it. i don't really know wad to say to the couple facing problems currently. As a close friend, i want you to feel as happy as you can be, even though it may mean hurting yourself once more. But as i told you, it's your life, i cant do anything but blog here. I've done my best within wad my powers can do and the rest is all up to you. No offence to the female party. I know some of my words are rather harsh and i wrote that because your words hurts one of my frens. But seriously, vulgarities aside (i've decided to scold less also, dude. Your "bad" influence, besides..i dun think my girl likes to when i scold to), i wish u guys all the best. And please. Please, dun hurt him again.
PS: my 69 hearts.....or its not just excretion going up your posterior. No bad words..... lol
For my brother's sake, i've decided to tone down my previous entry for the fear of hurting him more. Sorry dude, not appleasing u, but seriously apologising. Words hurt. The creater stays harmless while the victim receives a greater blow. sorry man. really.
It's amazing how much people are willing to do in the name of love. Stories of mothers gaining god-like strengths in order to save their child trapped under a fallen tree have been told. Some ppl devote their whole life into painting out of passion and love for art. And then there is the common teenager's love.
It's the 5th entry of my blog and i'm already running the risk of ruining one perfectly fine friendship. Isn't that exciting. I read what you wrote, but im chose and was told not to comment about it. This entry shall just be a personal reflection for me and the other parties. If i said anything wrong in my previous entry, i apologise. Then again, what is sorry but a way of appleasing others? but i dun see a point in hiding myself by deleting that post. I have the right to write about wad i want to write and even more so when i feel i'm right.
Ok, maybe i shall comment on bits and pieces of your entry. So i lied. The whole world is lying. It's true that i, kevin teo aka cute one is an outsider. I know nuts about what really goes on between 2 parties of a relationship. Isn't there some chi proverb that says outsiders see the whole picture more clearly than the parties itself? i dunno, i suck in chinanese. England too.
A relationship is about giving and taking. The spirit of compromisation must be strong within each self. For me, i guess this is the most important part of a relationship other than maintaining good communication. If one is unable to compromise with another's flaws, the relationship would experience bumps along the way and eventually break down.
Equal time with each other, unequal amount of sacrifice. In a relationship, some people sacrifice more than their spouses. Afterall, life is unfair. Things like this are bound to happen, so ppl ain't really complaining about it. But the amount of sacrifice a person is willing to take is sometimes remarkable. Even after being pushed down and kicked repeatedly, one could still stand up and fight on. For the love of their country? The love of their friends? Their family? Or is it for the love of one very special girl. Out of love for a person, one is willing to forgive all the wrongdoings just for the person to stay beside him once again. It may sound stupid to outsiders, it certainly sound stupid to me when i heard it. But if i put myself in that person's shoes, i guess i would do the same.
Love is certainly a very powerful word. It allows the receiver to forgive a thousand sins, yet often, people abuses it. i don't really know wad to say to the couple facing problems currently. As a close friend, i want you to feel as happy as you can be, even though it may mean hurting yourself once more. But as i told you, it's your life, i cant do anything but blog here. I've done my best within wad my powers can do and the rest is all up to you. No offence to the female party. I know some of my words are rather harsh and i wrote that because your words hurts one of my frens. But seriously, vulgarities aside (i've decided to scold less also, dude. Your "bad" influence, besides..i dun think my girl likes to when i scold to), i wish u guys all the best. And please. Please, dun hurt him again.
PS: my 69 hearts.....or its not just excretion going up your posterior. No bad words..... lol
For my brother's sake, i've decided to tone down my previous entry for the fear of hurting him more. Sorry dude, not appleasing u, but seriously apologising. Words hurt. The creater stays harmless while the victim receives a greater blow. sorry man. really.
Zero-Niner, Roger...out 11:56 PM